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Tips for parents on handling Substance Abuse
The World Health Organisation (WHO) defines substance abuse as harmful or hazardous use of
psychoactive substances, including alcohol and illicit drugs. Psychoactive substance use can lead to
dependence syndrome – a cluster of behavioural, cognitive, and physiological phenomena that develop
after repeated substance use and that typically includes a strong desire to take the drug, difficulties in
controlling its use, persisting in its use despite harmful consequences, a higher priority given to drug use
than to other activities and obligations, increased tolerance, and sometimes a physical withdrawal state.
Signs of Substance Abuse
There are different signs of drug abuse. In general, people who use drugs or alcohol typically display
health issues; like, a neglected appearance, changes in behaviour and irregular sleeping patterns. They
also make repeated requests for money.
Psychological signs of substance abuse
Behavioural signs
Physical signs Inability to focus
Bloodshot eyes Problems in school or with authority
Flushed skin Lying and deceiving
Track marks or abscesses Mood swings and instability
Weight loss or gain Hyperactivity or lethargy
Impaired speech or coordination Loss of inhibitions
Unusual smell in breath or clothing Indifference to family or obligations
Inability to sleep Unexplained guilt
Poor hygiene Depression
What can parents do? Decline of self-esteem
Self-hatred, which may lead to self-mutilation
A child’s relationship with his or her parents has a deep impact on their decision making. There is a
delicate balance between being a positive role model for your child and being a smothering or
overprotective parent. Eventually, teens have to make choices for themselves, and some of those might
be poor. However, parents can take certain actions to reduce the likelihood that their children will
experiment with drugs. Some of these actions include:
Know Their Friends
Your child’s groups of friends play an immense role in their attitudes on drugs. As children make
transition in life, move through school and meet new people, they are likely to bounce around different
circles. Some of these people may convince them to experiment with alcohol and other drugs. Parents
should get to know their children’s friends. It’s important to know who your child hangs out with and be
cautious of harmful influences. If you notice a negative change in your teen, identify the friends they are
spending time with. Encourage your child to hang around the people you consider to be positive
influences.
Model Good Behaviour
Socialization process and parents have the biggest influence on the child’s life. An unfortunate number
of parents dissipate this responsibility with careless personal habits. Something as seemingly innocuous
as
smoking cigarettes or drinking cocktails can set an example for your child’s future behaviour. Parents
need to be cognizant of their influence, and should do their best to model good behaviours while in the
presence of their children. Research shows that adolescents tend to imitate their parents’ behaviour,
including alcohol or other drug use.
Create a Positive Environment
Parents need to go beyond modeling good behaviour and should create a positive environment for their
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child. In teenage years, children need a home that reinforces their good behaviour and builds